THE ONANI MENTORING TECHNIQUE™
10 Steps to a well considered life

STEP    1    2    3    4    5    6    7    8    9    10

Step 5 — A shift from self denial to self awareness begins.

We are born depending on others for survival.  This gives us a sense of belonging, security, familiarity, routine and acceptability within a foundation. (Even if our support system is difficult- we feel a belonging to this structure.)   We learn to relate to our sense of love and power as external to who we are. The nature of the human spirit is to grow. We want more. Something within us begins to awaken, begins to stir, begins to grow.  Simply following the rules, routine and expectations of others can become dissatisfying.